" There's always gonna be someone better looking
There's always gonna be someone smarter
There's always gonna be someone who works harder
What you have to offer is yourself, so don't lose it, focus on it and try to bring it out. " ~ Jared Padalecki.
Look into the mirror, what do you see??
Do you see a person with dreams?? Or a person whose identity has been buried under multiple fake persona?? Or a person drowned by the voices of others?? Or a person who is constantly trying to be themselves but is afraid of what people will think???
What do U see??
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Society today is UGLY. ( Let me lay it all on the table ) It was not created like that but it is like that. It is so ugly.... That when you try to be yourself, it sucks you and remolds you into this shadow of your former self. So that whenever you look into the mirror, you only see what they want you to see and not what you really are.
It is essential you know yourself and LOVE yourself. Stop trying to be a part of a cliche, group or gang that don't even value your presence which brought me to the realization that nothing in this world is ORIGINAL but YOU.
I mean, everyday I tell myself I am going to write something that has never been written before (wrong!!! ) A little research will reveal that it has indeed been written. But not in my own word. Not in YOUR OWN WORD.
Researchers say, finding an exact copy of yourself is one in a trillion. (wow!!) You have a one in 135 chance that a single pair of completely identical doppelgänger of you exist anywhere in the world. Mind blowing, isn't it.
The chances of meeting someone that looks like you is Sure but RARE. Someone like me that have come across multiple ' doppelgangers ' then you are used to people saying;
" she looks like you " Or " Are you twins???" Or " Are you sisters??"
Sometimes I don't see the resemblance or other times I do but choose to ignore. And trust me, It is annoying being mistaken for someone else until I looked deeply and it struck me that even though people think I look like that person. There is a difference, I can see.
That difference that makes me..... Me.
There is a uniqueness to every individual.
ð YOU ARE ORIGINAL.
Accept your ' flaws and imperfections ' they are what makes you, YOU.
Being yourself means Loving yourself. It is hard but it is possible. And when you learn to accept yourself for who you are. THINGS BECOME CLEARER AND YOU FIND YOUR PURPOSE.
Here are a few questions, you should ask yourself. It could be of help.
QUESTION 1 -: WHO Am I???
* Describe yourself from your unique hair, skin tone and body and to your distinct personality *
QUESTION 2 -: What makes me happy???
* What Is that thing that when you do makes your heart tingle and makes you happy *
QUESTION 3 -: WHAT Am I GOOD AT???
* What are your strengths and weakness?? You can not be good at everything but there is a particular thing that you know you excel in *
Remember to fall in love with yourself. You are enough. Cheers to being uniqueð¥
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