Chapter 32: chapter 32

Sanya - Yeah, sure. Aman - Once I was reading a book. The book was the biography on the life of court judges. Sanya - Okay. Aman - Once one judge retired from his job. He and his wife decided to go for a tour of a hilly station. They went to a hilly station. I guess they went to Shimla, perhaps Manali, you just assume a hilly station where people often dream of making their house after their retirement. Gagan - Hmm.. Okay. I got it. Then what happened? Aman - They were very happy. The judge said, “Now, we will live the life as we want. It was our dream to live in a hilly station. And now, we will live here forever. Soon, we will buy a house here.” His wife said, “Yeah, finally, now we can live the life of our dreams.”Azeez - That’s great. I hope they must have lived a great life later on. I giggled and said, “You should listen to the full story first. Hehe!”Azeez - Okay, tell what happened then? Aman - The first day they spent over there happily. The second day was just average for them. And the third day was hell boring! Azeez - Boring? Aman - Yeah. On the third day, the judge said to his wife, “There are no malls, no good shops, no good restaurants. There is nothing. Where shall I go for my entertainment? When I was in the city, in the evening to pass my time, I could go to the market, I could go to the public park where I could see a lot of people and talk to them. My old friends, my old relatives were also there in the city. But here is no one. I am feeling very alone here. Let’s go back home!”Azeez - Oh God! Really that happened? Aman - Yeah, it happened in reality according to the book. But I am sure it’s the reality. Because once I also went to Himachal Pradesh on a hilly area where I lived for three consecutive days. I thought I would enjoy a lot but I experienced the same feelings as the judge experienced. Azeez - Oh. At that time, I had read the biography of the judge. That’s why I understood this fact very deeply. And it’s the reality. You can also try and gain first hand experience. You will be able to enjoy a hilly station only for two to three days and after that, you will get hell bored like me, like the judge. Sanya - Aman, I don’t want to listen to you. You are breaking my dreams. I also want to live on a hilly station with my husband forever! I chuckled, “It’s better if your dreams are broken now. I suggest you not to nurture such dreams because in future when your dreams will be shattered, you will get hurt a lot!”Sanya - Just shut up! You are a very negative man!Vicky - This thing I have also observed in Aman. Aman, I am telling you seriously. You must change your mentality. You always think negatively. You should try to be a positive thinker. Aman - If the reality is negative then what will I do thinking positive about it. Even if I start thinking positively about it, the negativity is not going to change into positivity. The fact which is negative will remain negative. And the fact which is positive will remain positive. Nothing is going to change with our thinking. Vicky - No, Aman. You are wrong. One can also think in this way, “When we will be having our own home in a hilly station, we will enjoy our life a lot. We will find thousand and one ways to make our life more entertaining.”Sanya - Well said, Vicky! You nailed it! See Vicky’s just two sentences has made me happy. It’s the power of positive thinking!Azeez - And Sanya has become really very happy. We can see her happiness on her face. It is proof of the power of positive thinking. Aman - It’s just false happiness. When a big political leader makes false promises with the public, the latter becomes very happy. The public becomes happy because now they are thinking very positively. They are thinking that they are going to get everything what the leader promised. But do they get what they were promised or what they desired? Clearly, no! And so the later on, the same public start cursing the leader. Then they become very very negative. Vicky - What are you trying to say? Aman - Okay, I am putting it straightforwardly now. I mean to say that what you just said, that brought happiness to the faces of girls is just like the sweet words from the mouth of the political leader. Now, the girls have become happy. But when they try to live in reality, only then will they realize that they are not able to live joyfully over there. Gagan - Okay, baba. Now, you tell us if one can’t enjoy living in the hill station, then how can one enjoy his life? Do you have any tips? Aman - I don’t have any specific tips. I can only say this. If one learns to enjoy his life at the place where he is then he can live joyfully anywhere in the world. Suddenly, Azeez saw a girl and she shouted, “Hey! Shabina!”Aman - Shabina? Who is she? Azeez - She is one of my close friends. She has become a woman activist. Wait, let me call her! Hey, Shabina! Shabina turned around and looked at Azeez, “Hey! Azeez! You! After a long time.” She briskly walked towards Azeez and hugged her. Shabina was about 5 feet nine inches in height. She was tall and muscular having the least feminine traits in her personality. Her gait, her body structure everything was masculine. I wondered, “Is she a girl? Really?”We all greeted her and she greeted us. After a normal hello hi talk, Shabina said to Azeez, “Now, Azeez what do you do in your life?”(It will be so nice of you, if you leave at least a single word comment and please don't forget to follow me and become my superfan. You will be able to chat with me and my superfans directly.)