chapter 42
How They Married
âIsnât it funny??â Ritu.âWhat?â Archana.âMita di got married and after Bidaai instead of going to her in lawâs place she will come back to our home only. So it will be like Jijuâs Grih- Pravesh here..heheheâ Ritu.âStupid, that is because our Mita Di is going to Chennai tomorrow. They have reception there day after.â Archana.âSo, Jiju also will come here with Di tonight??â Ritu.âmmmmm I think so!!â Archana.âWow ..so much fun!! But where are they now??â Ritu.As per our custom, after marriage, they have gone to the temple.Here Jay & Mita with their families, visited Shree Ganesha temple first.âMy Dear Bappa. Thank you so so so much. I canât express my gratitude in words. Thank you for giving me Jay in my life. Now all I want is his happiness. Just one last wish Bappa, I want to die in my Jayâs arms!â Mita prayed from bottom of her heart.Jay also wished for Mitaâs happiness and their happy married life. Then they all went to Shree Mahalakshmi temple and took Deviâs blessings. Then they headed towards home.Aaji, Mom, Mami and all other ladies in the house performed aarati at the entrance for the newly wedded couple. They were about to enter the home but Mami stopped them.âNow what ??â Mama.âMita ani Jay Naav ghya..Ukhana, you cannot enter without that,â mami.âUkk..Ukhana?? What is that??â Jay.âJiju, this is a ritual. You have to say your wifeâs nameâ¦â Pihu.âThen thatâs very simple.. âMITAâ,â Jay said.Everybody started laughing.âNo Jiju. Not like that,â Archana.âThen?? Thatâs what her name is . Isnt it??â Jay.âYes Jiju but you have to say it in a shayari or a small poem,â Pihu.âWhatt?? But I am not a poet!!â Jay.âheheheh.. Jiju you are so funny!â Ritu.âWait..!! Let me teach you,â mama whispered in Jayâs ear.âBhajit Bhaji MethichiMita mazya preetichi,â Jay repeated.âHehehe..jiju this is very old and typical wayâ¦we want something better and new,â Archana.âYeah, but Jiju, well tried. Those Marathi words sounded so cute when you said it,â Pihu.âRahu dya g te ukhane. Pore thakali asatil. Yeu dya tyanna aat (Let it be. Let them come now. Poor kids, must be tired.)â Aaji. âAe Aaji, please⦠lagn thodich roj roj asateâ¦. Ya doghanni ukhana ghetalach pahije, tehi typical wala nahiâ¦kahitari navin..(Aaji, please naa, we canât have such marriage functions everyday, right?? Di and Jij both have to say each otherâs name that too in an unique wayâ¦.otherwise, No Entryâ¦â Archana.âhmmmmâ¦.je bolalis te kharech ahe mhana..chalu dya mag.. (What you said does make senseâ¦.continue,â¦)â Aaji.âYeyyy,â Archu, Ritu and Pihu clapped, âNow come on Jijuâ¦ââI took her name once, even though thatâs not interesting for you..now it is her turn, let her say it, after that I will try again, give me some time,â Jay.âOk Jiju, no problem, Come on Mita Di,âMita looked here and there and smiled.âWhy are you looking here and there? Your Patidev is standing next to you!!! Heheheâ¦â Pihu.âSonyachi Angathi ani chandiche painjanSonyachi Angathi ani chandiche painjan,Jay che naav ghete, eika sarv jan!!!ââWaah wahhâ¦kya baat hai.. mast Mita Mastâ¦â Aaji came forward and kissed Mitaâs forehead.Jay was totally confused, âI couldnât understand itâ¦ââOk, let me try to translate it for youâ¦â¦ I may not get rhyming words like I used in Marathi, but still I will tryâ¦Golden Ring and Silver Anklet,Golden Ring and Silver Anklet,I am saying my âJayâs name, to listen that , everybody please keep Quiet !!!!ââWowwww Di, that was awesomeâ¦!!!â Pihu hugged Mita.âWooh..interestingâ¦. I really loved this ritual!!â Jay.âHmmm Jij, now again it is your turn. You loved the ritual right?? Now try again,â Ritu.âOk let me tryâ¦â¦Â On Paris ground, I was playing cricket, On Paris ground, I was playing cricket, Thatâs when I saw Mita, and she took my wicket!!!!â Jay.Everybody started clapping. Mita was looking at Jay with wide open mouth.âMaan gaye Jay beta⦠Kya ukhana liya haiâ¦.â Mama hugged him.âYou should learn something from him,â Mami.âHuhâ¦.for that you should also learn something from your Mita,â Mama.âArre pan mala kuni arth sangel ka Jay ne kay ukhana ghetla tyacha?? (Can somebody tell me the meaning what Jay said)â Ajji.âAaji mi sangateâ¦.{Aaji, I will tell you),â Ritu was so excited.âParis chya ground var mi khelat hoto cricket, Paris chya ground var mi khelat hoto cricket, Tevhach Mitala pahile ani padali mazi wicket!!â âWaah wah.. kiti hushar ahe maza naat- javayi, (Jay is so smart)â Aaji. She came forward and gave him 101 Rs. as a prize,âKhoop premane hi mhatari tula he chotese bakshis dete ahe. Tyach premane mazya Mitacha sambhal kar. Khoop guni ahe ho mazi Mita, (With lots of love I am giving this small gift to you. With the same love, please take care of my dear Mita. She is our treasure,)â Aaji had tears in her eyes. After listening to that, Mom also had teary eyes. She took her pallu and wiped her tears.âAaji, this gift of 101 Rs is precious for me and so is Mita. Both will be with me forever,â Jay.âOk Ok, before these happy moments turn into emotional drama, let them come inside now,â Papa.   Mita, Jay entered home.They were really tired. But still few more rituals games continued till midnight.âI thought it would be our 1st night today after marriage, but it is something different than what I expected,â Jay whispered in Mitaâs ear.âExpectations reduce joy so, hehehe,â Mita.âPoint noted, Mrs. Mita Jay,â Jay.âWow, that sounds great!!â Mita.âGuys, enough of these games now, Jiju and Di must be tired!! Let them go and sleep,â Pihu.âFinally, God heard my prayes!!â Jay. Amma, Appa, Simi and other relatives were ready to go back to the hotel.âAmma, Appa, I will also come,â Jay.âBut jiju, we thought you would stay here tonight,â Ritu.âNo problem Kanna, you stay here,â Appa.âNo Appa, I will come with you all, anyways we have to leave early tomorrow,â Jay.âI will also come with you,â Mita.âNo Mita, itâs too late and you are really tired. Better you take rest here, sleep well,â Jay.Mita was surprised but then she was proud of Jay. She nodded her head.âOkk thenâ¦tomorrow..Chennai Express!!!!â Papa. To be continued.Â